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Welcome, friends — both new and familiar! If you’ve visited before, you know this space is where experience meets curiosity and where I share stories, insights, and lessons that reflect a life well-lived and still unfolding. As a retired senior living in Las Vegas and a former New York City law enforcement officer, I bring a unique perspective to the topics I explore. Over the years, I’ve used this blog to document everything from technology tips and lifestyle reflections to scam awareness and product reviews — all with the goal of helping others, especially fellow seniors, live safer, smarter lives.
My content encompasses a diverse range of themes, grounded in real-world experiences. You’ll find blog posts exposing internet scams and shady social media tactics, like the disturbing use of children and animals for clickbait. I’ve also highlighted free alternatives to expensive tools like Adobe, explored my adventures in drone flying, and offered honest feedback on everything from Amazon deals to online photo storage. I’m passionate about making sense of today’s digital world — especially for those of us who didn’t grow up in it — and I believe in using technology for empowerment, not frustration.
A very special thank you goes out to my friends, readers, and supporters who continue to visit, share, and comment. Your encouragement means the world to me, and it's what keeps this blog alive and evolving. Whether you’ve been here from the beginning, or you just stumbled across a post, know that your time here is deeply appreciated. It’s not just about writing — it’s about community, trust, and connection.
Looking ahead, there’s much more to come. I’ll continue digging into the world of scams with the eye of an investigator and the heart of someone who wants to protect others. Expect more honest, no-nonsense product reviews, as well as reflections on what it means to grow older in a fast-changing world. This journey into my 60s, 70s, and beyond will be one of discovery, adaptation, and purpose — and I’m grateful to have you with me every step of the way.
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To understand where I am going, you have to know where I am from. Thank you to all my readers, family, and friends who support me on this journey of transparency and reflection.
From Concrete Jungle to Inner Strength
A Journey of Resilience
In the heart of Spanish Harlem, amid the towering structures that cast shadows on overcrowded streets, a story unfolds—a narrative not only of survival but of transformation. As I stand here in my early 60s, mentally and physically fortified, I find solace in reflecting upon the tumultuous journey that shaped my existence.
This is not just a recounting of the past; it is a testament to the enduring power of the human spirit. The crowded apartment, once a fortress and a prison, becomes the backdrop to a tale of emergence, of transcending the confines of a turbulent upbringing.
In the crucible of adversity, where the concrete jungle of Spanish Harlem mirrored the challenges of my youth, resilience thrived. From a cramped space shared with siblings, dreams emerged—flickering lights amidst urban chaos. The projects, often synonymous with struggle, were also the grounds where strength and determination took root
This story is not just mine; it's a lifeline for those who have felt the weight of a similar past. It's a reminder that no one is alone in their struggles and that the journey from darkness to light is a path we can all tread. I hope that, through these words, someone finds reassurance—that it is never too late to embrace inner strength, to navigate the tunnels of despair, and to bask in the peace that comes with realizing there's light at the end of every tumultuous journey.
My Visit to the Little A'Le'Inn
near Area 51
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Nestled in the remote town of Rachel, Nevada, lies a quirky and fascinating establishment known as the Little A'Le'Inn. With its playful name and proximity to the enigmatic Area 51, this quaint motel and restaurant has become a haven for UFO enthusiasts, conspiracy theorists, and curious travelers like me. Recently, I had the incredible opportunity to visit the Little A'Le'Inn and immerse myself in the world of extraterrestrial lore.
Upon arriving at the Little A'Le'Inn, the distinctive exterior and eclectic decorations immediately captured my attention. The iconic sign, with its whimsical depiction of an alien and spaceship, set the tone for the unique experience that awaited me. The surroundings were adorned with alien-themed sculptures, mysterious road signs, and a sense of intrigue that permeated the air.
As I stepped inside the inn's cozy restaurant, I was greeted by a warm and welcoming atmosphere. The walls were adorned with photographs, newspaper clippings, and testimonials from visitors who shared their own encounters and experiences. Engaging in conversation with fellow travelers, I learned about the vibrant community of UFO enthusiasts who frequent the inn, sharing stories and theories that spanned from the plausible to the outlandish.
No visit to the Little A'Le'Inn would be complete without contemplating the mysteries surrounding nearby Area 51. While the secretive military base remains shrouded in confidentiality, the inn serves as a gateway to the countless rumors and speculations that have fueled imaginations for decades. With its close proximity to the infamous facility, the inn has become a central hub for those seeking to uncover the truth behind the secrecy.
Navigating the Maze of Scams:
A Visual Encyclopedia of Deception
In today's digital age, the unfortunate reality is that scams and fraudulent schemes are on the rise, with scammers becoming increasingly sophisticated in their methods to deceive. Our comprehensive visual encyclopedia serves as a critical resource for individuals seeking to educate themselves on the numerous scams proliferating across the internet and beyond. From classic phishing emails to more sophisticated and deceptive investment opportunities, this page aims to shed light on the darker aspects of deceit. By providing a collection of scam-related images, we offer a visual guide to help you recognize and avoid these fraudulent activities. The goal of this resource is not only to help you identify when scammers are targeting you but also to empower you with knowledge to protect yourself from being scammed.
The first step in safeguarding yourself against scams is to be aware. Our visual repository features detailed screenshots and examples of various scams, including email phishing, fake giveaways, scam texts, fraudulent investment schemes, and more. Each image is accompanied by descriptions and common indicators of scams, helping you to recognize red flags quickly. Remember, scammers prey on emotions—fear, excitement, or the lure of easy money—to trick their victims into making hasty decisions. By familiarizing yourself with these tactics, you're better equipped to pause and assess the situation critically, reducing your chances of being scammed.
Education is your best defense against scammers. This page is designed to be an evolving resource, continuously updated with new scams as they emerge. By staying informed about the latest fraudulent techniques and sharing this knowledge with friends and family, you contribute to a more scam-aware community. Knowledge is power, and in the context of scams, it's your power to remain unscammed.
In the fight against scams, information and vigilance are key. Our visual encyclopedia of scams serves as a beacon for those navigating the treacherous waters of online and offline fraud. By staying informed and cautious, we can collectively diminish the impact of scammers and protect ourselves and our loved ones from falling victim to these false schemes. Remember, if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. Stay skeptical, stay informed, and let this page be your guide in the ongoing battle against scams.
Old School to Digital Cool
My love affair with technology
I’ve always been drawn to technology and electronics—even before I knew what they were. One of my earliest memories is of the game Pong in the early 1970s. We didn’t have one at home, but a lucky neighbor did, and I found every excuse imaginable to visit their apartment to get my hands on those paddles. That fascination didn’t stop at games. One Christmas, I got a Polaroid camera and immediately used the only film it came with to take pictures of my toys and dolls. Unfortunately, once my mom realized the film was an ongoing expense, the camera mysteriously vanished.

I was always curious about how things worked and wanted to take things apart to see what was inside. That included TVs, though those old, console-style monsters were pieces of furniture—not exactly easy to crack open! I even remember going to the local pharmacy to play with the fuse tester they used for checking TV tuners. I was definitely the kid with a screwdriver in one hand and a million questions in my head.
By the 1980s, my natural curiosity had led me toward computer science. Those were the days of floppy disks, giant CRT monitors, and command-line prompts. I was fascinated with MS-DOS and playing around with binary code, eager to understand how machines thought. But life had other plans, and I ended up joining the NYPD. Still, my love for tech never faded. While on the job, I found ways to keep my passion alive—fixing electronics, staying up to date with computer technology, and utilizing technology whenever possible in my work.
Now, more than 30 years later, that same curiosity still drives me. I run and edit my blog, fly drones for fun and filming, and even dabble in coding, video editing, and photo restoration. The tools have changed, but the joy of learning and creating hasn’t. From Pong to Premiere Pro, from Polaroids to Photoshop—I’ve come a long way, and I’m still exploring. Technology has always been more than just a hobby; it's a lifelong adventure.
Contact iMarly
I’d love to hear from you — no matter where in the world you’re reading from! Share your thoughts in the comments, let me know how you relate, or suggest topics you’d like me to cover. Whether it’s scams, tech tips, product reviews, or life after 60, I’m here to help and connect.
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