Author: imarly

  • Sponsored Search Scams

    Sponsored Search Scams

    Sponsored Search Scams: Now Scammers Are Buying Ads to Trap Us.

    Sponsored search scams are the latest reason I am really annoyed and upset about what is happening online. Right now, I want to shout this warning to the world. For now, I will blog about it.

    Scammers are getting better and better at making the fake look real. We are already reaching a point where many of us cannot tell the difference just by looking. Now scammers are investing even more time and money in their scams—including buying sponsored ads to help trap potential victims.

    Yes, they are paying for the privilege of scamming us.

    The FTC recently warned consumers about bill-payment impersonators using sponsored search results. Someone may receive a suspicious email or text and do exactly what we have always told them to do: don’t click the link. Instead, they open a search engine and search for the company themselves.

    That is supposed to be the safe thing to do.

    But a paid result could lead them to a third-party payment site that looks like the company’s official payment channel. They could pay unexpected fees, be enrolled in a subscription they did not knowingly choose, or provide financial information to a business they never intended to use.

    So now even this familiar advice is no longer enough:

    “Don’t click the link. Search for the company yourself.”

    We apparently have to add more instructions to the instructions.

    I Have Watched Scam Advertisements Become More Convincing

    This is not the first time I have seen scammers use advertisements and familiar company names to attract victims.

    I previously made a video warning people about a fake Bed Bath & Beyond website. It used a company name people recognized and offered products at ridiculously low prices.

    I also warned people about a $47.98 mobility-scooter advertisement that appeared across social media. The kind of scooter shown in the advertisement can cost thousands of dollars. The price alone should raise questions, but the advertisement was especially upsetting because of the people it could attract.

    Someone who is elderly, disabled, or struggling financially might desperately need that scooter. They may want to believe they have finally found one they can afford.

    Scammers understand that.

    They understand our needs, our hopes, our habits, and the names of the companies we already trust. They use it all against us.

    I saw the same pattern with the viral Yeti cooler scam, which used the Sam’s Club name to make a fake giveaway seem trustworthy.

    I had already noticed fake videos, websites, and company advertisements on Facebook and other social-media platforms. Now scammy advertisements are appearing in paid results on Google Search, Bing, and potentially anywhere else that sells prominent search placement.

    They are following us from social media into the very places we were taught to use for safety.

    Sponsored Search Scams Can Make a Fake Website Look Real

    Most of us have been taught not to trust links in unexpected emails or text messages. If you need to contact your bank or pay a utility bill, search for the company yourself.

    That advice made sense.

    But what happens when the scammer is waiting for you in the search results?

    The FTC has also warned that outright scammers use paid search results to impersonate companies and government services

    They may use misleading descriptions, trusted names, official-looking websites, or telephone numbers that appear to belong to a legitimate organization.

    A sponsored placement may give a fake or misleading website a false sense of legitimacy. People may assume that if an advertisement appears prominently in a major search engine, someone must have checked it first.

    Unfortunately, we cannot afford to make that assumption.

    A safer approach is to use the company’s official app, a bookmark you previously verified, or a web address printed on a trusted bill or statement.

    The FTC also recommends scrolling past paid advertisements, typing a known company address directly into your browser, or using the website or telephone number printed on your bill.

    If you do use a search engine, carefully examine the web address before entering your username, password, account number, or payment information.

    If you encounter a suspicious advertisement, impersonator, or dishonest payment site, you can report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.

    But that brings me to another part of this that upsets me.

    More Businesses Are Pushing Us Online

    In my experience, more companies are pushing customers toward handling their business online.

    Customers may have limited options to pay by mail or speak with a real person. Some companies even charge an additional fee for making a payment by phone.

    This upsets me to no end.

    People are being pushed online to take care of important responsibilities, but the online world is becoming increasingly difficult to trust. We are told to be careful, inspect every link, verify every website, question every advertisement, and somehow recognize increasingly convincing scams.

    How much responsibility can we continue placing on the person who is just trying to pay a bill?

    I Especially Worry About Older Internet Users

    I worry about everyone, but I especially worry about my elderly friends who are just beginning to use the internet.

    Some are only now comfortable enough online to handle their basic responsibilities. They may know how to open a browser, search for a company, sign into an account, and make a payment.

    They have learned just enough to do what businesses now expect them to do.

    Then the rules change.

    We told them not to click links in suspicious messages. We told them to search for the company themselves.

    Now those results that used to lead to a trusted source now may lead you to an advertisement purchased by a dishonest business or impersonator.

    How is anyone supposed to know?

    And if I am being completely honest, this is not only about people who are new to technology. I consider myself a tech-savvy senior, and I know that I am also at risk.

    It is easy to become distracted because you are in a hurry. This distraction can confuse you this confusion will make you believe that you have reached the correct website.

    Knowledge may reduce the risk, but it doesn’t make any of us untouchable.

    What Comes Next?

    That is the question I keep asking myself.

    What else? What is next?

    Scammers are becoming more convincing. Artificial intelligence is making it harder to distinguish real images, videos, voices, and messages from fake ones. Familiar companies are being impersonated. Sponsored advertisements can lead people to websites they never intended to visit.

    Sometimes it almost makes me want to turn off my Wi-Fi and get rid of the internet altogether.

    Of course, that is not a realistic answer for most of us. The internet is too woven into our everyday lives. We use it to communicate, manage our money, make appointments, access important accounts, and take care of our families.

    But I am tired of feeling like nothing we do is enough.

    I am annoyed, upset and worry that it will never end.

    I wish I could stop these advertisements before anyone sees them, expose every fake website, and make every deceptive post disappear. But I know that is far beyond anything one person can do.What I do have is my ability to share what I see and speak out about it.

    And I will continue doing that for as long as I am physically and mentally able.

    If one warning helps one person stop before entering payment information into the wrong website, then speaking out still matters.

  • Are Drone Tariffs Going to Make Our Hobby Too Expensive?

    Are Drone Tariffs Going to Make Our Hobby Too Expensive?

    Are Drone Tariffs Going to Make Our Hobby Too Expensive?

    Updated August 18, 2026: This article reflects the drone tariff rules announced as of this date. The policy and its implementation may change as additional guidance is issued.

    I own several drones: a DJI Mini 4 Pro, Mini 5 Pro, Neo, and Avata 360. I didn’t buy them to build some giant commercial drone operation. I bought them because I love flying.

    So when I read that new drone tariffs were coming, my first thought wasn’t about international trade, manufacturing, or supply chains.

    My first thought was: Is my hobby eventually going to become too expensive for people like me?

    That is the part of this story I care about.

    Plenty of places explain tariffs, national security, and American manufacturing. Those things matter, but I started looking at this as someone who loves drones.

    I already invested money into this hobby. I invested time learning to fly, learning the rules, and figuring out what each of my drones can do.

    I’ve written before about how getting into the drone hobby turned into something much bigger than simply buying a drone for me.

    And I know I’m not the only one.

    Many recreational pilots aren’t trying to build a drone empire. We fly because it gets us outside. We take pictures. We make videos. We explore. We learn something new.

    Some pilots might occasionally make a little money with their drone, but for many of us this is first and foremost something we enjoy.

    So what happens to us?

    First: Your Current Drone Isn’t Suddenly Going Anywhere

    This was the first thing I wanted cleared up.

    The new Drone Tariffs proclamation applies to covered drones being imported into the United States beginning September 3, 2026. It does not place a new tariff on the drone already sitting in your house.

    It also isn’t an order telling recreational pilots to stop flying the drones they already own.

    In other words, September 3 is not doomsday for drone pilots.

    If you already own a drone, the Drone Tariffs does not suddenly make that drone unusable.

    That distinction matters because when headlines start throwing around numbers like 25% and 100%, it can sound much scarier than what is actually happening.

    What Are the New Drone Tariffs?

    The U.S. government wants to reduce the country’s dependence on foreign-made drones and drone components and encourage more production in the United States.

    According to the August 13, 2026 presidential proclamation, the new tariffs create different rates depending on the type of drone and whether certain exceptions or qualifying lower rates apply.

    Large drones over 25 kilograms, drones with thermal imaging capabilities, docking stations, and certain specified components can face a 100% tariff.

    Smaller drones weighing 25 kilograms or less without thermal imaging generally fall under the 25% category, although qualifying products from certain countries may receive lower Drone Tariffs.

    Most of us flying little camera drones aren’t shopping for 25-kilogram aircraft.

    We fly the Minis, Neos, and other small drones that fit in a bag and come along with us to the park.

    And that is where my concern really begins.

    Drone Tariffs

    Does a 25% Drone Tariffs Mean Prices Will Go Up 25%?

    Not necessarily.

    This matters because it’s easy to see “25% tariff” and assume a drone that costs a certain price today will automatically cost exactly 25% more after September 3.

    That isn’t how we should look at it.

    U.S. Customs and Border Protection explains that the importer is ultimately responsible for paying duties on imported merchandise. What happens to the final retail price after that can depend on the manufacturer, distributor, retailer, supply chain, and other costs.

    A company might absorb some of that extra expense. It might pass some of it along to customers. It might pass most of it along.

    We don’t know yet what the final price increases will look like for individual consumer drones.

    That is why I don’t think we should panic.

    But I also don’t think recreational pilots should ignore what is happening.

    Should I Rush Out and Buy Another Drone Before September 3?

    This was one of my first thoughts too.

    If drones get more expensive, should I hurry up and buy what I want now?

    For me, the answer is no.

    At least not just because a date is approaching.

    If I was already planning to buy a particular drone, found a good price, and could comfortably afford it, that would be one thing.

    Buying an expensive drone that I don’t really need because I’m afraid I’ll never be able to afford another one is something entirely different.

    We don’t know yet exactly how retailers will respond. We don’t know what future models will cost. We don’t know what manufacturers might change in their supply chains.

    The proclamation also includes incentives intended to encourage companies to manufacture more drones and drone components here in the United States.

    So I’m watching.

    I’m not panic-buying.

    What I’m More Worried About Is the Replacement Drone

    Honestly, the only thing I am really worried about is whether my Mini Pro 4 and 5 will work. Will my NEO work, and let’s not forget my latest addition to my fleet, my Avata 360.

    Today, I’m okay.

    But drones don’t last forever.

    We crash them. Batteries age. Technology changes. Parts wear out. Sometimes something stops working.

    What worries me isn’t waking up on September 3 and discovering that I can’t fly.

    It’s looking a few years down the road and needing to replace one of my drones only to discover that the affordable choices I used to have are no longer affordable.

    That’s a very different concern.

    And right now, I think it’s a legitimate one.

    Replacement parts and repairs are another area I’ll be watching.

    Certain other drone components are scheduled for a 25% tariff beginning February 9, 2027, according to the proclamation.

    We don’t yet know exactly how all of that will eventually affect what an average hobbyist pays to keep a drone flying.

    How will the Drone Tariffs affect Pilots Who Make a Little Money?

    Another group keeps coming to mind.

    Maybe you mostly fly because you love it, but every once in a while you use your drone for a small paying job.

    You’re not running a giant company with a fleet of aircraft.

    Maybe your drone helped you turn something you enjoy into a little extra income.

    Those pilots could feel rising equipment costs even more.

    A large company may be able to build higher equipment costs into its business.

    Someone doing an occasional small job may not have that same flexibility.

    If replacing a damaged or outdated drone eventually requires a much larger investment, some smaller operators may have to decide whether continuing is financially worth it.

    I’m not saying that’s definitely going to happen.

    I’m saying that’s one of the things worth watching.

    Could These Tariffs Actually Help in the Long Run?

    Possibly.

    I don’t want to look at only one side of this.

    The stated goal of the tariff policy is to increase drone and drone-component manufacturing in the United States, reduce dependence on foreign supply chains, and encourage companies to invest in American production.

    The proclamation even creates an onshoring incentive program for companies willing to build or expand U.S. manufacturing facilities.

    If that works, maybe we eventually end up with more drones and components being made here.

    Maybe more competition develops.

    Maybe new affordable choices appear.

    I would love to see that happen.

    But building an industry doesn’t happen overnight.

    And recreational pilots still have to live through whatever happens between where we are today and where the drone market eventually ends up.

    That’s the part I’ll be watching.

    Is My Drone Hobby Coming to an End?

    After reading all of this, I keep coming back to my original question.

    Is my time with this hobby coming to an end?

    Right now, I don’t believe it is.

    The drones I already own are still here, and right now I still get to enjoy them.

    But I do think the days of simply assuming that the next affordable drone will always be waiting on the shelf may be changing.

    And that makes me appreciate what I already have a little more.

    I’m going to take better care of my drones.

    I’m going to make smarter purchasing decisions instead of buying because something new and shiny comes along.

    I’m going to watch prices, watch what manufacturers do, and pay attention as these policies develop.

    But I’m not giving up flying because of what might happen.

    I’ve invested too much time into learning this hobby, and more importantly, I enjoy it too much.

    So for now, my drones are staying charged.

    My controller is staying ready.

    And I’m going to keep flying for as long as I’m allowed and able.

  • Decluttering for Mental Clarity:

    Decluttering for Mental Clarity:

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    For me, decluttering for mental clarity is not about having a perfect home. I hate clutter. Not in a cute, “I like a tidy home” kind of way. I mean clutter makes me feel uncomfortable in my own skin.

    The Space Where Clutter Used to Be

    I hate clutter.

    Not in a cute, “I like a tidy home” kind of way. I mean clutter makes me feel uncomfortable in my own skin. When my environment is crowded, my mind starts to feel crowded too. I feel confused, unhappy, surrounded, and sometimes almost trapped by things that are just sitting there.

    Some people struggle with keeping too much. I struggle with the opposite.

    Decluttering for Mental Clarity, Even When I Go Too Far

    I am not a hoarder. I may be the equivalent extreme on the other end. I get rid of things too soon. Clothes, papers, little household items, things I have decided are no longer necessary. Sometimes I move so fast that later I find myself looking for the very thing I donated or threw away. And yes, I have had to replace things before.

    But in the moment, when I want something gone, I really want it gone.

    There is a particular kind of relief I feel when a space opens up. A corner clears. A shelf has room. A closet is no longer fighting me when I open the door. I can breathe better. I can think better. The space feels peaceful to me.

    And if I am being completely honest, sometimes I declutter in secret.

    If something has been sitting in the same place for months and months, forgotten by the person who owns it, it starts to feel like it belongs to the clutter now. I will wait until nobody is looking and quietly make it disappear. Not because I want to be sneaky for the sake of being sneaky, but because I already know what might happen if someone catches me.

    They might say, “Put that back.”

    And I do not want to put it back.

    I want it gone.

    The Relief of Empty Space after Decluttering for Mental Clarity

    There is a strange satisfaction in looking at the empty spot afterward and knowing the thing that was bothering me is no longer there. I do not need credit. In fact, I would rather not have credit. I want the space.

    Now, I know this may sound extreme. It probably is. I have learned that my love of decluttering can go too far. Sometimes things are worth keeping. Sometimes documents matter. Sometimes other people’s belongings are not mine to decide on, even if they have abandoned them in plain sight for what feels like forever.

    So I am learning balance.

    Finding Balance Without Breaking the Bank

    What works for me is not fancy. I keep a simple plastic bin nearby, and when I notice something I no longer need, I place it there. When the bin is full, I empty it out and find those items new homes.

    I do not have a top ten list of organizing products because I do not need one. What I use is simple: one or two clear storage bins. You can find them almost anywhere. I’ll include an Amazon link because that was the lowest price I found so far but shop around.

    Check Walmart, Home Depot, your local supermarket, or even Goodwill and Salvation Army. If you buy a used bin, just inspect it carefully because secondhand bins are more likely to have cracks or damage.

    There are plenty of products that claim to help with organization, but honestly, the only real investment you need is your time, your desire, and one or two clear see-through bins.

    When Clutter Feels Like Noise

    For me, decluttering is not just about having a pretty closet or a clean room. It is about how I feel in my space. A cluttered room can make me feel like my thoughts have nowhere to land. A clear room gives me calm. It gives me room to move, room to think, room to be.

    I grew up knowing that space is a luxury. A closet, a dresser, a room of your own- those things were not always guaranteed. Maybe that is part of why I treat space like something valuable. If I have it, I do not want to bury it under things I do not use, need, or even like.

    I would rather live with less and feel lighter.

    That does not mean I always get it right. Sometimes I declutter too quickly. Sometimes I throw away first and ask questions later. Sometimes the space feels so good that I forget there may have been a reason to keep what was there.

    But I still believe there is something powerful about clearing your environment. Not because every drawer needs to be perfect. Not because your home should look like a magazine. Not because decluttering makes you a better person.

    But because your space affects you.

    And for me, clutter is noise.

    When I clear it, I feel quiet again.

  • Internet Services Plans: The Money Saving Question to ASK?

    Internet Services Plans: The Money Saving Question to ASK?

    Internet service plans can be confusing. Shopping for a new plan? There’s one question you should ask before agreeing to anything:

    “Could you please send me the Broadband Label for this plan?”

    It may sound like a simple request, but that one question can help you compare internet providers, understand hidden fees, and avoid expensive surprises on your monthly internet bill.

    Sometimes, having the edge isn’t about knowing all the answers.

    Sometimes it’s simply knowing the right question to ask.

    What Is a Broadband Label?

    Think of the FCC Broadband Label as the Nutrition Facts label for your internet service.

    Instead of listing calories and ingredients, it shows the important details about your internet plan in a standardized format that makes it easier to compare one provider against another.

    It helps you see beyond the sales pitch and focus on the facts.

    Before You Agree

    Before saying yes to any of the to any Internet Service Plans presented to you, ask:

    “Could you please email or text me the Broadband Label for this internet service plan?”

    That’s it.

    One simple question could save you money for years.

    What to Look for on a Broadband Label

    You don’t need to become a technology expert.

    Just pay attention to these important details.

    💰 Monthly Price of internet service plans.

    Is this the actual monthly price?

    Or is it a promotional rate?

    Many internet providers advertise attractive introductory prices to to Internet Service Plans that increase after several months.

    📅 How Long Does the Price Last?

    Look for promotional pricing.

    If the label says the discount expires after 12 or 24 months, ask:

    “What will my monthly bill be after the promotion ends?”

    Knowing the long-term cost helps you compare internet service plans more accurately.

    📦 Internet Service plans Equipment Fees

    Is the modem or router included?

    Or are you paying a monthly rental fee?

    A $15 equipment rental may not seem like much, but over five years it adds up to hundreds of dollars.

    ⚡ Internet Speed

    Check both:

    • Download speed
    • Upload speed

    If you stream movies, attend Zoom meetings, upload videos, or work from home, upload speed can be just as important as download speed.

    Data Limits

    Does the plan include unlimited data?

    What happens if you exceed the monthly allowance?

    Some providers charge additional fees, while others reduce your internet speed.

    Contract Terms

    Is it a monthly plan?

    One-year plan?

    Two-year plan?

    Will there be early cancellation fees?

    💵 Additional Fees

    Look for recurring charges such as:

    These costs often explain why your actual internet bill is higher than the advertised price.

    What If the Representative Doesn’t Know?

    This may surprise you…

    During my years working in technical support for an internet provider, I wouldn’t have known about the Broadband Label.

    If a customer had asked me for one, I likely would have placed them on hold while I contacted a supervisor.

    Not because I didn’t understand technology.

    My job was helping customers troubleshoot internet problems—not explaining sales disclosures or pricing documents.

    If you get a representative who is unfamiliar with your request, be patient and politely say:

    “No problem. Please check with a supervisor or someone in sales? I want to review the Broadband Label before making a decision. A respectful question often gets better results than an argument.

    What If No One Can Find It?

    Sometimes the representative asks another department.

    Then another supervisor.

    The call gets longer.

    Everyone is trying to help.

    At that point, many customers feel pressured to agree so they can end the conversation.

    Don’t.

    Instead, say:

    “I appreciate all your help today. I want to review the Broadband Label before making a decision, so I’ll think it over and call back later.”

    There’s nothing wrong with taking your time before choosing an internet service plan.

    Don’t Let a Long Phone Call Make the Decision for You

    One thing I learned in technical support is that long phone calls can wear people down.

    After forty-five minutes…

    Multiple transfers…

    Several holds…

    Many customers wanted the call to end.

    Unfortunately, that’s often when expensive decisions get made.

    Remember:

    You’re choosing a service you’ll probably pay for every month.

    A little patience today could save you money for years.

    Sometimes the Right Question Is More Powerful Than the Right Answer

    You don’t have to become a networking expert.

    You don’t need to memorize technical terms.

    You need enough knowledge to ask better questions.

    That’s how smart consumers protect themselves.

    Because sometimes…

    It isn’t the answer that gives you the advantage.

    It’s knowing the right question to ask.

    Marly’s Quick Questions Before Choosing an Internet Service Plan

    If you are considering updating your internet but are not firm on it yet, screenshot this quick guide, call your internet provider, and ask the questions in this image. The goal is to get an idea of what to look for as you consider and form the right questions for your situation.

    Internet Services Plans: More Money Saving Questions to ASK?

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    Once you’ve narrowed down your choices, don’t stop there. Whether you’re signing up as a new customer or upgrading your current internet service, asking the right questions can make the difference between a great deal and an expensive mistake. Check out my guide, 👉10 Questions to Ask Before Upgrading Your Internet, to learn the questions I believe every customer should ask before saying “yes.”

    🌐 FCC Broadband Consumer Labels

    Learn what a Broadband Label is and how it helps you compare internet service plans. 👉Broadband Consumer Labels

    📖 FCC Consumer Help Center

    Find answers to common questions about internet service, billing, and your consumer rights. 👉FCC Consumer Inquiries and Complaints Center

  • Mac vs PC for 4K Video Editing: Which Is Better?

    Mac vs PC for 4K Video Editing: Which Is Better?

    4K video editing needs the proper equipment to achieve the full benefits of 4K video and if you’re trying to decide between a Mac and a PC for your 4K video editing setup, you’re not alone. With so many options out there—from Apple’s powerful M-series chips to high-end PC builds—figuring out what works best for your workflow can feel overwhelming.

    In this post, I’ll walk you through current system requirements, pros and cons, and real-world performance so you can make an informed choice that fits your creative needs.

    4K Video Editing Requirements on a Mac

    What specs are needed to edit 4K on a Mac? Here are the most recommended options worth considering  if you are planning on using Final Cut Pro or Adobe Premiere Pro for a smooth editing experience:

    What About The MacBook Air For 4K Video Editing?

    A MacBook Air can handle 4K video editing. Still, there are some recommendations, the most important being to use proxy files or optimized media for better performance on lightweight models. Also recommended are the M1, M2 and M5 versions.

    Windows 4K Video Editing

    Windows users have access to more customization and power per dollar. Building or buying a system tailored for 4K may be less of a financial burden. Let’s go over what to look for:

    Insert recommended pc spec for 4K editing.

    Can I afford a PC for 4K editing?

    Custom builds under $1,200 may outperform Macs at the same price. That performance shines through when paired with DaVinci Resolve or Adobe Premiere.

    Pros and cons of editing 4K on MAC

    Pros:

    • Seamless experience with Final Cut Pro (Mac exclusive)
    • Excellent thermal management with Apple Silicon
    • Great battery life on MacBooks
    • Fewer driver issues; less troubleshooting

    Cons:

    • Higher price for similar performance specs
    • Limited upgrade options (especially post-purchase)
    • Fewer ports; external drives often require adapters

    Pros and cons Editing 4K on PC

    Pros:

    • Greater customization and future-proofing
    • Better cost-to-performance ratio
    • More choices in software and hardware
    • Easy to repair or upgrade over time

    Cons:

    • Compatibility issues with drivers or software
    • Requires tech knowledge or IT support
    • More variation in build quality and noise levels

    Which One Should You Choose?

    I’ve been a tech nerd for over 50 years, and the majority of my experience has been with PCs. While I do know how to use a Mac and have explored Apple products, I recognize there would be a learning curve if I decided to fully switch.

    At one point, I even considered getting a Mac just to experience it first-hand, but I couldn’t justify the cost of a new system just for the sake of trying something new, especially when I already have the skills and knowledge to accomplish my goals on a PC.

    I do wish I had experimented with Mac when I was younger, but I’m still genuinely grateful for the depth of experience I’ve gained with Windows systems.

    Trying to choose between a Mac and PC for video editing?

    • If you value simplicity, reliability, and a streamlined creative experience, a Mac with Apple Silicon is a fantastic (though pricier) choice.
    • If you’re more into custom builds, hardware upgrades, or want more raw power per dollar, a PC might be your ideal workstation—especially for Adobe or DaVinci users.

    Whichever direction you go, make sure your machine meets the minimum requirements to avoid frustrating render times and playback issues.

    Of course, even the best computer is only part of the equation. Once you’ve chosen the right Mac or PC, the next step is finding video editing software that fits your experience level and budget.

    If you’re not sure where to start, I’ve personally reviewed several popular free video editors, compared their features, and included important download safety tips to help you avoid fake websites and scams.

    Be sure to check out my complete guide, Best Free Video Editing Software: A Comparison and Safety Guide, before you download your next editor.

  • 10 Questions to Ask Before Upgrading Internet Service

    10 Questions to Ask Before Upgrading Internet Service

    Questions to ask before upgrading internet service should come before saying yes to a faster—and usually more expensive—plan.

    Internet providers often make upgrading sound simple: pay a little more each month and everything online will suddenly become faster. But a higher-speed plan may not solve the problem if your modem, router, Wi-Fi setup, computer, or other equipment cannot handle the new speed.

    Before agreeing to anything, slow the conversation down and ask questions.

    You do not have to understand every technical term. You need enough information to know what you are buying, what equipment is required for upgrading internet service, and what the complete cost will be.

    Faster Does Not Mean Better Internet

    Better Internet Is Not Only Faster Internet.

    A faster internet plan can help when several people are streaming, gaming, working from home, making video calls, or using many connected devices at the same time.

    However, speed is only one part of your internet connection.

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    An old modem may not support the faster plan when upgrading internet service. A weak router may not send a good Wi-Fi signal throughout the house. A computer may be running slowly for reasons unrelated to the internet. Even the location of your router can affect your experience.

    That is why you should identify the actual problem before buying more speed.

    Here are ten questions to ask your internet provider before agreeing to an internet speed upgrade.

    1. Will My Current Modem Support the New Internet Speed When Upgrading Internet Service?

    Your modem is the device that connects your home to your internet provider. Every modem has limits on the speeds and technology it can support.

    Ask the representative to confirm that your modem is approved for the exact plan being offered before upgrading internet service.

    Do not settle for a vague answer such as, “It should work.”

    Ask:

    “Can you check the modem model listed on my account and confirm that it supports this specific speed?”

    For example, you could upgrade from a 300 Mbps plan to a 1 Gig plan, but an older modem might not be capable of delivering the full new speed. You could end up paying for service your equipment cannot properly use.

    2. How Old Is My Modem, Exactly?

    Many people have used the same modem for years and have no idea how old it is.

    That is understandable. Modems usually sit quietly on a shelf, behind a television, or near a computer. As long as the internet works, we rarely think about them.

    Ask the provider when the modem was first activated or issued. You can also look for the brand and model number printed on the device.

    Age alone does not automatically make a modem unusable, but an older model may not support newer internet standards, faster speeds, or current security updates.

    Write down the modem’s:

    • Manufacturer or brand
    • Model number
    • Approximate age
    • Maximum supported speed
    • Provider approval status

    Having this information makes it easier to confirm whether the modem needs to be replaced.

    3. Do I Own the Modem, or Am I Renting It?

    Many customers are surprised to learn that they have been paying a monthly modem or gateway rental fee.

    Look at your internet bill for terms such as:

    • Equipment rental
    • Modem rental
    • Wi-Fi equipment
    • Gateway
    • Advanced Wi-Fi
    • Panoramic Wi-Fi
    • Whole-home Wi-Fi

    Ask the representative whether the equipment belongs to you or the internet provider.

    When equipment is rented, the provider is generally responsible for replacing it according to its policies. When you own it, you may be responsible for purchasing a newer compatible model.

    Knowing who owns the modem also helps you understand whether it must be returned if you replace it, move, or cancel service.

    4. Will the Upgrade Add a Monthly Equipment Fee?

    A different modem may be required, which can change the final monthly price as an additional monthly charge. Ask, “What will my total monthly bill be after the upgrade?

    You will want them to include equipment fees, taxes, and any optional services when upgrading internet service?” Ask, “If the quoted price is a temporary promotional rate, what will the normal price be when the promotion ends.

    Internet providers must display FCC Broadband Consumer Labels for standalone broadband plans at points of sale. These labels provide information about pricing, introductory rates, typical speeds, data allowances, and certain fees. Ask the representative to show or send you the broadband label for the plan before you agree to it.

    5. Is a Newer Modem Included, or Do I Have to Request One?

    Upgrading internet service rarely includes automatic upgrades to the equipment.

    Ask the provider directly:

    “If my current modem does not support this speed, will you automatically send me a replacement?”

    Then confirm:

    • Is there a charge
    • Will the replacement be new or refurbished
    • If you must install it yourself, and is there a charge for a technician install
    • Whether you must call to activate it
    • How long you have to return the old equipment

    Some providers may leave the old modem active unless the customer specifically requests newer equipment. That might cause frustration when the new plan fails to perform as expected.

    6. How Do I Return My Old Modem?

    Equipment returns can become expensive when they are not handled correctly.

    Ask where the old modem must be returned and whether you can:

    • Take it to a local provider store.
    • Drop it off at a shipping location.
    • Prepaid return label
    • Schedule a pickup

    Ask for a receipt or tracking number.

    Keep that proof until the device disappears from your account and your next few bills show no unreturned-equipment charge.

    It is also a good idea to photograph the modem’s serial number and the return receipt. Those photos can be extremely helpful if the provider later claims you never returned the equipment.

    7. Will I Be Charged for a Technician Visit?

    A representative might recommend sending a technician to install equipment, check wiring, or improve the connection.

    Before scheduling the appointment, ask whether there will be a charge.

    Ask:

    • What is the exact technician fee?
    • Is the fee waived as part of the upgrade?
    • Will I be charged if the problem is inside my home?
    • Will I be charged if the provider’s equipment is defective?
    • Can I install the modem myself instead?
    • Could additional wiring or outlet charges be added?

    Please include any promised fee waiver in your order confirmation and in your account notes.

    A verbal promise can be difficult to prove later.

    8. Do I Really Need Faster Internet for What I Do Online?

    This may be the most important question on the list.

    Think about how you normally use the internet.

    Do you mainly:

    • Read email?
    • Browse websites?
    • Use Facebook?
    • Watch occasional videos?
    • Make video calls?
    • Stream television?
    • Play online games?
    • Work from home?
    • Upload large photographs or videos?
    • Have several people online at once?

    Someone who mainly checks email, reads the news, shops online, and uses Facebook may not need the fastest available internet plan.

    A larger household with multiple televisions, gaming systems, security cameras, phones, tablets, and computers may benefit from more speed—especially when several devices are active simultaneously.

    The FCC offers broadband guides that compare common activities and household usage. The figures are general guidelines rather than guarantees, but they can help consumers think about what they actually do online before selecting a plan.

    Before upgrading, ask the provider:

    “Based on my actual usage and number of devices, why are you recommending this particular speed?”

    The representative should be able to explain the recommendation in ordinary language.

    9. What Happens If I Upgrade the Plan but Keep My Current Equipment?

    This question helps reveal whether you are being sold an incomplete upgrade.

    Your internet connection may continue working with old equipment, but you may not get the full speed you are paying for. What you are experiencing is an incomplete upgrade. You could also experience dropped connections, buffering, weak Wi-Fi, or inconsistent performance.

    Ask whether keeping the old modem will:

    • Limit maximum speed
    • If there is no speed limit, will it slow down after a certain speed? Some internet plans offer unlimited but slow down after reaching 300mbps or more.
    • Cause compatibility problems
    • Affect reliability
    • Prevent technical support
    • Create security concerns
    • Require replacement later

    Request a clear explanation of what the equipment can and cannot support.

    Remember that the modem brings the internet into your home, while the router distributes the connection to your devices. Some providers combine both functions into one device called a gateway.

    The modem can support the plan while the router or Wi-Fi connection remains the real problem.

    10. Can I Downgrade Later If the Upgrade Does Not Help?

    Before accepting a faster plan, find out whether you can return to your current plan or choose a less expensive one.

    Ask:

    • Is there a contract?
    • Is there an early termination fee?
    • How long does the promotional price last? This is important to know because most providers will not send you warnings before increasing your price to the normal rate. Set a calendar alert to notify you when you are near the end of your promotion.
    • Can I downgrade without a penalty?
    • Will my previous plan still be available?
    • Is there a trial or satisfaction period?
    • Will changing plans affect any bundle discounts?

    The FCC Broadband Consumer Label should disclose the plan’s 

    "As someone who spent years in tech support, I'll admit this is something I didn't even know existed at the time. It wasn't part of my role, and if a customer had asked me for one, I probably would have needed to ask a supervisor. That's exactly why I'm sharing it now—because if it was easy to miss from the inside, it's even easier for customers to never know it's available."

    base price, introductory pricing, recurring fees, certain one-time fees, typical download and upload speeds, latency, and information about data allowances. Review the label before completing the order.

    Download your printable version of this cheat sheet by clicking on above photo or here 👉Internet upgrade cheat sheet.

    Ask for the Offer in Writing

    Before agreeing to an internet upgrade over the telephone, ask the representative to email or message you the complete offer.

    The confirmation should include:

    • The name of the plan
    • Download speeds
    • Upload Speeds
    • New monthly price
    • Promotional period
    • Price after the promotion
    • Equipment charges
    • Installation or activation fees
    • Technician charges
    • Contract terms
    • Cancellation terms
    • Equipment return instructions

    Do not allow yourself to be rushed.

    You can say:

    “Thank you. I need to review the full price and equipment requirements before I agree to the change.”

    A legitimate offer should still make sense after you have had time to read it.

    Check Your Current Internet Before You Upgrade

    Before calling your provider, write down what is actually going wrong.

    For example:

    • Websites load slowly
    • Video keeps buffering
    • Wi-Fi does not reach a bedroom.
    • Connection drops at certain times (It could be the device)
    • One device is slow, but others work normally.
    • Video calls freeze
    • Uploads take too long.
    • The internet becomes slow when everyone is home.

    These clues matter.

    If Wi-Fi is poor in one room, router placement or signal coverage may be the issue. If every device loses service, the modem, wiring, or provider connection may need attention.

    If only one computer is slow, the computer may be the problem.

    Paying for more speed without identifying the cause can leave you with the same problem and a higher bill.

    A Simple Script to Use With Your Provider

    You can read this directly to the representative:

    Before changing my plan, can you let me know the complete monthly cost? Please include equipment fees. And will my current modem support the new speed? Will I have to replace my equipment, and is there an installation or technician charge? What will the price be after the promotion ends? Please send me the FCC Broadband Consumer Label and the full offer in writing to help me decide.

    There is nothing rude or difficult about asking these questions.

    You are the customer, and you have the right to understand what you are purchasing.

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    Be Careful With Unsolicited Internet Upgrade Calls

    Not every person claiming to represent your internet company is legitimate.

    You will find that there are excellent scammers who sometimes impersonate internet and cable providers. These scammers offer discounts, upgrades, or lower bills. And for all the hard work these scammers put into scamming you, they will request an advance payment more often in the form of gift cards, banking details, passwords, or remote access to your computer.

    The Federal Trade Commission has warned consumers—including older adults—about scammers pretending to represent television and internet companies.

    When someone unexpectedly calls with an offer:

    1. Do not provide account passwords or payment information.
    2. Do not allow remote access to your computer.
    3. Hang up.
    4. Find the provider’s telephone number on your bill or official account.
    5. Call the company directly and ask whether the offer is real.

    Do not rely on the caller ID or a telephone number supplied by the caller.

    Faster internet does not fix old equipment. It often just exposes its limitations.

    Before paying for more speed, make sure your modem and router can support it. Find out what the upgrade will really cost, ask whether new equipment is included, and decide whether the faster plan matches how you actually use the internet.

    Most importantly, remember that you do not have to decide the sales call.

    Slow the sale down.

    Ask the questions.

    Get the answers in writing.

    Then decide whether the upgrade is truly right for you.

    Keep Learning and Stay Protected

    Technology is constantly changing, but you don’t have to figure it out alone. Before making any changes to your internet service, take a few minutes to review the official resources below. They provide reliable information about broadband labels, internet speeds, consumer rights, and filing complaints if something doesn’t seem right.

    Helpful Resources

    And because scammers often impersonate internet and cable companies with fake offers, don’t forget to visit my Scam Watch & Protect section, where I share real scams, warning signs, and practical tips to help you recognize and avoid them. The more informed you are, the harder it becomes for scammers—and confusing sales tactics—to catch you off guard.

  • Drone Pre-Flight Checklist

    Drone Pre-Flight Checklist

    Drone Pre-Flight Checklist: My Go-To Guide Before Flying in a New Location

    One of the highlights of my recent California vacation wasn’t actually flying my drone.

    It was spending quality time with my family.

    Watching my granddaughter experience the beach, explore the aquarium, take a whale-watching tour, walk the shoreline, and simply slow down for a few days.

    Even though flying my drone wasn’t at the top of my vacation plans, I couldn’t help doing what many drone pilots probably do…

    Every place we visited, I found myself looking at the sky.

    “Would this be a good place to fly?”

    I caught myself checking for open fields, looking for obstacles, wondering about the airspace, and asking whether local rules allowed drones.

    Most of the time I didn’t even have my checklist with me.

    But I still found myself going through it mentally.

    That experience reminded me why having a simple routine matters—especially when you’re flying somewhere outside your normal home area.

    California Showed Me Something I Didn’t Expect

    Before leaving for California, I spent quite a bit of time researching drone regulations.

    One thing surprised me.

    I expected California to have one statewide rule banning drones from all state parks and beaches.

    Unmanned Aircraft System (Drones) in State Parks

    Instead, I discovered it isn’t that simple.

    There isn’t one blanket statewide policy that automatically prohibits drone flights in every California state park or beach. Different parks, local governments, and land managers can have their own rules, and every location still requires research before flying.

    That doesn’t mean you can simply launch your drone anywhere.

    Quite the opposite.

    It reinforced something every drone pilot should remember:

    Not knowing the rules is never an excuse.

    Even when the FAA allows you to fly, local rules, temporary restrictions, wildlife protections, special events, or park regulations may still apply.

    That’s why I never rely on just one source.

    The I Marly Drone Lab Pre-Flight Checklist

    Airspace

    Local Rules

    • Review Park Ordinances and rules.
    • Check county regulations.
    • Verify state park policies.
    • Check for posted signs at the location.
    • Respect private property.

    Weather

    • Wind speed and Gusts
    • Visibility
    • Rain forecast
    • Sun position
    • Temperature

    Equipment

    • Charged batteries and controller(s)
    • Controller charged
    • Propellers inspected
    • Firmware updated (before leaving home)
    • SD card installed
    • Return-to-Home altitude set
    • Compass and GPS acquired if needed.

    Respect Others

    The biggest thing I have learned is that flying legally does not always mean it is the right place to fly.

    I may notice people are simply trying to enjoy a peaceful afternoon, and I may decide today is not the day.

    And for me, the best flight is often the one I decide not to take.

    Fly Everywhere Is Not My Only Goal

    I have realized something over the years.

    Finding amazing places to fly has become almost as enjoyable as flying itself.

    Finding and researching locations, learning local regulations, scouting parks, checking airspace, and planning safe flights has become part of the adventure.

    I don’t always end up flying.

    Sometimes I simply enjoy knowing that when I do decide to launch, I’ve done my homework.

    Your Turn

    I’m still learning.

    Every trip teaches me something new, and I’m always looking for ways to improve my routine.

    What would you add to this checklist?

    Is there something you always check before launching your drone that I may have overlooked?

    I’d love to hear your suggestions in the comments. They might even help improve this checklist for everyone.

  • DJI Avata 360 Unboxing

    DJI Avata 360 Unboxing

    DJI Avata 360 Review

    My First Flights, Real Experience & Why This Drone Feels Like FPV Without the Stress.

    There is nothing like opening a brand-new drone and knowing it is about to become part of your routine and fleet. I don’t even have words to describe the excitement I felt the moment I unboxed the DJI Avata 360.

    This was not just a drone purchase. To me it is the key to unlocking a whole new world of aerial adventures. This excitement was different than the usual excitement I feel when adding a new drone to my growing fleet.

    DJI Avata 360

    My First Impression of the DJI Avata 360

    Right out the box, the DJI Avata gives off a solid, ready for action feel. This unboxing is simple. I do not offer any deep technical breakdown. I simply pull out each item and enjoy the moment.

    Here is a look at my DJI Avata Unboxing and first impressions.

    How I Flew It

    For my first flight, I used the DJI RC2 controller instead of going full FPV. That made the experience feel more comfortable while still giving me those smooth, FPV style shots.

    What I Loved

    • Smooth Footage
    • Easy editing in the DJI FLY app
    • 360 style movement
    • Great beginner confidence boost.

    What I am still learning

    • Camera Settings
    • Better Angles
    • More creative movements
    • Planning shots before flying

    “This Drone made me look better than I actually am and I am not mad about it.”

    DJI Avata 360 Batteries
    DJI Studio Edit
    Paradise Point Park

    A few Tips:

    • Check for firmware updates beforehand
    • Check your airspace before every Flight
    • Use LAANC when required
    • Bring water, extra batteries, and a landing Pad
    • Make sure you have installed a high-speed SD Card at least 250 gigs or more.
    • Don’t assume you will have cell service at every park

    Drone Lab Reminder!

    Before flying anywhere, always check current airspace, local rules, temporary flight restrictions, and park requirements. Conditions change quickly!

    Before you go

    By now you know that the DJI Avata is exciting for me. Flying with it makes me feel Advanced without feeling impossible. I can grow with it, experiment and still enjoy great footage while I am learning.

    I am only just beginning, and it is going to get better.

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  • Setting Boundaries with Family: The Essential Guide to

    Setting Boundaries with Family: The Essential Guide to

    Setting boundaries with Family Matters

    Setting boundaries with family has been one of the most challenging yet essential lessons of my life. For a long time, I believed a boundary was nothing more than a rule—a line I expected other people not to cross. To me, it was a limit meant for others to follow. But time after time, I ended up frustrated when people broke through those boundaries. I couldn’t understand.

    The Difference Between Boundaries and Consequences

    Setting boundaries

    Now, when I look back, I realize that I was blurring the line between a boundary and a consequence. I found myself disappointed again and again by giving people another chance. I became emotionally exhausted. I was building walls to shut out others. I needed to find a way to set healthy boundaries.

    And while that protected me in the moment, it also made me sad and guilty, because many of the people I shut out were family and loved ones.

    What a Boundary Really Is

    It was when I learned that a boundary doesn’t actually work on other people that things began to shift. A boundary is not a rule, and it’s not a punishment. A boundary is something I set for myself. It’s the way I decide to act when someone crosses the line of what I can emotionally or mentally handle.

    That realization changed everything. Instead of trying to control others, I began to ask myself questions:

    • Who is adding to my emotional stress?
    • What is my relationship with them?
    • What kind of personalities do I want to surround myself with?
    • How do I feel when I’m with them?
    • How can we contribute positively to each other’s lives?

    Protecting Your Peace Through Boundaries

    Asking these questions gave me clarity about which relationships needed limits and which ones lifted me. From there, I built a solid course of action. When my peace or mental health feels threatened, I no longer argue, warn, or beg someone to change—I act. Sometimes that means reducing socialization, and sometimes it means complete avoidance. In short, setting boundaries with family has become the way I protect my peace.

    A Hard Lesson: Not in My Home

    But boundaries aren’t just for acquaintances or distant relatives—they’re most critical when the people crossing the line are your own children. Setting healthy boundaries with adult children is incredibly emotional because love and responsibility often cloud the ability to stand firm.

    I’ve learned that in the heat of the moment, words can come out sounding like threats, especially when you’re dealing with painful situations like theft, damage, or repeated broken trust. Pleading, crying, or lecturing never worked for me. What did work was stepping away, calming down, and deciding on actions that would truly protect me—not just in the moment, but long-term.

    Protecting Your Peace and Sanity: What a Boundary Really Is

    Setting boundaries with family—or anyone close to you—is rarely easy. But sometimes the situation leaves no other option. For example, imagine realizing that valuable items are going missing from your home. It’s devastating, but it also signals that action is needed.

    In cases like this, boundaries may involve securing your belongings, seeking legal advice, or even taking the difficult step of eviction. Though painful, these choices are not emotional reactions—they are clear statements: “This behavior is not welcome in my home.”

    The process is never easy. Eviction, for instance, can bring both sadness and relief. Yet it can also create the space needed for healing. And while change may take years, sometimes those firm boundaries are the very thing that opens the door to recovery.

    Boundaries Are Commitments to Yourself

    Experience taught me that setting boundaries with family doesn’t destroy love—it protects it. I have learned that a boundary is not a wall to keep others out. By setting boundaries, I am instead creating a door or a path to a better and stronger relationship.

    What Comes Next

    Although we have had a healthy outcome, I remain constantly prepared. I am never sure that we will never return to those dark and scary days. As a result, I have adjusted my boundaries and will never let go of what I’ve learned.

    And I can’t say it enough: by protecting our peace and standing firm, we not only survive but also create the space for healing, no matter the outcome.

    Adding Expert Insight: Why It Matters

    Mayo Clinic 👉 Q&A article that resonates deeply: It explains a critical principle, sometimes referred to as the “law of relationships”: we cannot control others; we can only control our own responses, thoughts, and feelings. This idea helped me clarify where my responsibility ends, and someone else’s begins—a realization that gave real shape and intention to the boundaries I now set for myself, rather than merely imagining them as rules for others to obey.

    Boundaries extend far beyond our personal lives. They’re also about the choices we make to safeguard our future. In my post on planning for uncertain times, I explain how simple habits—such as tracking expenses and prioritizing needs—help me establish healthier boundaries with money, time, and energy.

  • Raising grandchildren: quiet stories of love, and sacrifice.

    Raising grandchildren: quiet stories of love, and sacrifice.

    Raising grandchildren often carries quiet stories of love, sacrifice, and loneliness that few people ever see.

    When I began raising my granddaughter, she was just five months old. I was 54, newly retired, and a widow. Life had already thrown me some curveballs, but I embraced this wholeheartedly—even though I had no idea how deeply it would affect my world.

    The Quiet Side of Love: A Grandparent’s Honest Story About Raising a Grandchild Alone

    “While the invitations may slow, your heart will grow in ways you never imagined.”

    raising grandchildren

    A Different Path Than My Peers

    At an age when many of my peers were planning vacations or diving into retirement hobbies, I was navigating baby bottles and diaper changes. Most women my age were still working or had the freedom to enjoy an empty nest. I had a crib in my bedroom and sleepless nights ahead.

    The Loneliness No One Talks About

    Suddenly, I could not attend events or gatherings without childcare. Social invitations began to fade. I quickly realized that being a widow raising a baby made me an anomaly. Some did not know what to say most just stopped reaching out.

    And that kind of isolation… it can be too real.

    Two Friends Who Stayed

    Despite the loneliness, I was never completely alone. Two dear friends stood by me—and still do to this day. They understood without judgment, supported me without condition, and reminded me that I mattered beyond my role as a caregiver. It was because of them that even though we were alone, we never felt lonely.  

    Pushing Through for Her

    I tried to take my granddaughter out to help her make friends. But connecting with younger parents was hard. When they found out I was the grandmother, walls often went up. I suppose I didn’t fit their mold of a typical “mom friend.”

    Then came COVID-19. We were completely isolated. I do not know what would have happened if not for my good friends, who were also my neighbors. We spent more than a year just the two of us. When the pandemic was officially over, my granddaughter suffered socially.

    Despite the isolation and loneliness, we came out of it winners. All that time alone allowed me the time to really get to know my granddaughter. So, something good came out of it. We were also fortunate to have never gotten COVID.